A gentle excerpt to give you the feel of the book’s voice and rhythm.
There’s an old saying, “When one door closes, another opens.”
It rings true, especially when one goes through a profound life-altering experience like divorce.
But this new door doesn’t lead to an unfamiliar room, it opens to a forgotten space within yourself that holds the key to your resilience, strength, and self-worth. It’s time for self-discovery — the first step on the journey of reviving love.
Dealing with the aftermath of a divorce can be challenging and emotionally draining. Yet, as you navigate these rough seas, it’s crucial to allow yourself to grieve. You’ve lost something important, and it’s only natural to mourn that loss. Your feelings are valid, and your tears are a testament to your humanity.
Then, slowly, it becomes time to create a new identity — a task that may seem daunting but is deeply empowering. You’ve been part of a duo, but now you’re navigating the world solo. This can be liberating as you realize you’re not defined by your relationship status, but by your individuality and inner strength.
Remember, you are a person of worth — not because someone else recognizes it, but because you do. Your worth is intrinsic and unshakable, unaffected by external circumstances. Rediscovering your worth is about reaffirming your value, both to yourself and to the world.
This journey isn’t just about healing — it’s about growth. So, identify the things you want to achieve, whether they relate to your career, personal development, or new passions. Let your goals be a compass guiding you back to yourself.
Begin by writing down the interests, joys, and talents that may have been forgotten during your marriage. Think about what makes you feel alive. Rediscovering these parts of yourself is a deeply fulfilling process.
And remember — the goal isn’t just to survive, but to thrive. The most important love to revive… is the love for yourself.
Welcome to the beginning of your new chapter.
If this spoke to you, I’d love for you to keep reading.